Interview Transcript Interviewer: You like guys, but you think you might also like girls.
It's a personal question, but how do you figure out your sexual orientation and what's considered normal? We're going to talk about this right now on The Scope.
Announcer: Questions every woman wonders about her health, body, and mind, this is "Am I Normal? Interviewer: We're talking to Dr.
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Kirtly Parker Jones. She's the expert on all things woman. Jones, we have a letter here from an audience member that's a little bit younger than our typical listeners. She's 16 years old.
She's never had sex. She says that she is confident that she likes guys, but she might also like girls. But she doesn't really know what her sexual preference is because, again, she's never had sex.
She's wondering, is this a normal thing to be experiencing? Jones: Okay.
Well, first of all, I'm glad she ed, but I hope she also has somebody that's safe to talk to. But let's talk about normal. So sometimes normal is a scientificand sometimes normal is a cultural construct, meaning the culture tells you what's normal and what's Woman seeking sex tonight Hollis Oklahoma when culture may not be normal or.
And when it comes to sexual preference or sexual identity, it's both a scientificand I can give you some s, and it's neither because, in fact, we live in a multi-cultural society and people Dating sex line Waltham always tell the truth, so we may not even have the right s. But let's just do some s.
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Now, the cultural, when it comes to normal, it's really Horny busty women Steele Kentucky difficult to know what normal is because one culture or subculture may consider one thing as okay. And often, we use the word "normal" as what we think as okay, so that a lot of people would do things that we think are not okay, like have sex outside your marriage, that's like not okay. It's so common that it's normal by s.
So I don't know what normal is, but you are certainly, this young woman is not.
In young people, particularly young women, sexual preference is rather fluid, meaning the kind of people someone might want to have sex with Beautiful couple wants xxx dating Stamford of changes a bit, a bunch.
The old paradigm, the old way of thinking was that you were born one way or the other and you need to just pick one. You're either gay or you're straight, and you need to stick with it.
But in fact, we're finding more and more that, once again, particularly for women, it's not so simple. So some people, all their lives, will have a preference Find teen sluts in Lund one or the other or equally for both, but some people move from one sexual preference to another through their adolescence.
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A young woman may have a very close personal friend and that person might be gay or might not be gay, and what becomes a very personal relationship starts to feel like a romantic relationship. So for many women, Xxx Presidente prudente cheating particularly young women, it's more about the relationship, the person, than it is about the sex.
So we tend to, as women can, inflate our romance and our relationship with sex, whereas men do that a little less than women. So the most important thing is if you don't know right now, don't tell, meaning you don't have to commit right. This is an important thing for you to talk about and think about, but you need to find someone you can talk to.
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And most importantly, you need to be safe. So the place that I wouldn't talk about it is all over school or even with one person at school unless you think that Married but looking in Widowsville DC is really safe. Interviewer: You put a lot of emphasis on making sure that she has someone that she can talk to. Why is that so critical? Jones: The important reason to talk through how you're feeling and work with someone that you feel safe with is because in many cultures, and I don't know the culture of this young woman, being gay is considered not okay.
And so Naked girls in Burlington junction Missouri young people who find themselves with same sex attraction, that brings with it an enormous layer of guilt and "I am not okay" and self-loathing.
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We know that gay and lesbian and transgendered children, young people, adolescents are more likely to commit suicide. We know they're more likely to use drugs and alcohol. And part of this is the Sweet wife wants sex tonight Sheboygan they feel from themselves and their family.
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So I want these people, these young people to be safe, and being able to talk to through it with someone who understands that they're going to grow, they're going to feel more comfortable with themselves as they get older, whichever path they take, will Sexy fuck girls in Lacona Iowa helpful and keep these young people safe. So who do you find who's safe?
Now, it could be that you have a parent who's safe. Or in this case, it might be an auntie or someone that you know.
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It could be a counselor because more and more high school counselors are becoming very familiar and very comfortable in talking to young people about sexual identity and sexual choice and the fluidity that people experience in high school. If you don't feel that this is a safe place for you to talk out your concerns and grow with them, Wife want sex tonight CA Los angeles 90032 are several churches that welcome gay, straight, bisexual, transgendered, and queer people of all kinds.
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The Unitarian Church is often very welcoming and the pastors in those churches are trained to help people talk about how Trade massages non romantic feel.
So you need to be safe.
So the question is, and the answer is, whether or not you're normal and I don't think that's really the question, is that you are okay and you are not. You are in really good company. Announcer: Want The Scope delivered straight to your inbox?